About
Since 2016, I have been writing and speaking about healthcare inequities faced by widowed, divorced, separated, and always single adults as a result of inaccurate stereotypes of marital status and social support. My articles have appeared in the New England Journal of Medicine, the Washington Post, Psychology Today, the Philadelphia Inquirer, The Health Psychologist, and Quartz, among others. A book, Sick While Single: How Outdated Views of Marital Status and Social Support Drive Healthcare Inequity, is forthcoming from Yale University Press. I was interviewed on NPR's All Things Considered and gave a TEDx talk, "Sick While Single? Don't Die of Discrimination." I have also appeared on numerous podcasts, notably CURE, SOLO, and New Legacy Radio.
From 1979 until 2014, I taught at the University of Delaware, where I held a joint professorship in English and legal studies; I am now professor emerita. As a professor, I published three books with Yale University Press as well as dozens of articles about academic freedom. That work won awards from the American Library Association, the American Educational Research Association, the Gustavus Myers Center for Human Rights in North America, the American Civil Liberties Union (Delaware), and the Spencer Foundation, among others. I appeared on numerous radio and television talk shows, notably 20/20, Talk of the Nation, Radio Times, Fresh Air, and the Diane Rehm Show.
I serve on the boards of the International Singles Studies Association and the Bella DePaulo Foundation for the Empowerment of Single People, and I engage with the International Singlehood Advocacy Network. I am also a member of the Authors Guild and Singles Equality.
Non-professional memberships include the Cosmos Club (Washington, D.C.), the Rotary Club of Wilmington, Delaware (former secretary), and the Lincoln Club of Delaware (former president). As a lover of opera and classical music, I also have memberships and/or subscriptions at the Metropolitan Opera, Carnegie Hall, the Philadelphia Orchestra, the Washington National Opera, and Opera Delaware.
Featured Work
"Death by Stereotype? Cancer Treatment in Unmarried Patients"
More than 200 peer-reviewed medical articles show that unmarried cancer patients are significantly less likely to receive surgery or radiotherapy than otherwise similar married patients, and are more likely to die of their cancer. This article in the New England Journal of Medicine challenges the medical authors' attribution of this deadly discrepancy to the unique importance of spousal support, without which patients allegedly cannot handle, and do not want, aggressive treatment.
Other Works
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"Easy Listening"
2021
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"Living Past the Expiration Date"
2021
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"Is It Harder to Be a Single Man or a Single Woman?" (with Craig Wynne)
2021
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"Dispelling Myths about Unmarried Patients with Cancer"
2020
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"Single With COVID-19: Will You Get the Treatment You Need?"
2020
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"The Princess and the Narcissist: Matrimania in Classic Opera"
2020
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"Tales from the Crypt: Living Single 40 Years Ago"
2020
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"In a Hospital, Friends Are Not People"
2020
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"Female and Single: A Double Whammy for Cancer Care"
2020
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"Politicians Act Like People without Families Don’t Have Support. They Couldn’t Be More Wrong."
2020
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"How Cancer Treatment Varies with Marital Status, and Why It Shouldn't"
2019
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"Point of Departure"
2019
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"Singlism in American Medicine: Patients without Partners Face Stereotyping and Discrimination" (with Bella DePaulo)
2018
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"Discrimination Against Singles in the Health Care System"
2018
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"Cancer Treatment May Be Less Aggressive If You’re Not Part of a Couple."
2018
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"I’m 70 and Single. I Have a Strong Support System. But When I Got Sick, It Wasn’t Enough."
2016
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"Patients Without Partners, and the Doctors Who Stereotype Us."
2016
Awards and Recognition
- American Library Association, Eli M. Oboler Memorial Award for What Johnny Shouldn't Read, 1994. American Educational Research Association Outstanding Book of the Year Award for What Johnny Shouldn't Read (co-winner with Jonathan Kozol's Savage Inequalities), 1993. American Civil Liberties Foundation of Delaware, Gerald E. Kandler Memorial Award, 2001. American Library Association Office on Intellectual Freedom, Thirtieth Anniversary Roll of Honor, 1999. Gustavus Myers Center for the Study of Human Rights in North America, Outstanding Book Award for What Johnny Shouldn’t Read: Textbook Censorship in America, 1995. The Fourth R: Conflicts Over Religion in America’s Public Schools, nominated for the Louisville Grawemeyer Award in Religion, 20006 Spencer Foundation grants, 1994, 1998, 1999
Press and Media Mentions
- NPR, All Things Considered, discussion of "Death by Stereotype" in the New England Journal of Medicine
- CURE Today podcast
- SOLO podcast with Peter McGraw
- Science Alert story on "Death by Stereotype"
- Science Daily, story on "Death by Stereotype"
- News Medical Net story on "Death by Stereotype" in the New England Journal of Medicine
- ecancer story on "Death by Stereotype"
- Spinsterhood Reimagined podcast (with Christina Campbell)
- Life Apres podcast, "Sick While Single"
- Life Apres podcast (with Jaclyn Geller) "Single, Non-Married, Breaking Assumptions
